Sunday, December 12, 2021

@fitnesswla

Coming to America

Coming to America from Shanghai, Taiwan, Hong Kong to the beautiful Rainbow State of Hawaii

Aloha to you from my heart. Maiden, Mother, Crone, I am an aspect of the Goddess. 

My story started out with a constant fight with my older brother who used to bully me and my younger 

siblings, but since boys are valued by traditional Chinese families, I was conditioned to sacrifice my

highest good for my family. I dropped out of college to get a full-time job so that I could support my family. 

I managed to get a good job as a translator in the U.S. Embassy in Hong Kong where I met my 

husband who demanded that I give up my job to become a full-time wife and mom. I gave up so much 

of myself that I forgot my spiritual growth, I became very controlling, demanding and selfish, I became 

very materialistic and vain. I focused on looking good so I could feel good about myself. I looked 

outside myself for love and approval but I was not happy. I always wanted more. When I am with my 

granddaughter, I have a glimpse of happiness. She reminds me of what it used to be when she laughs 

and plays. I miss you, my beautiful, precious grand child. You are my sunshine.

This is my song to you: Imagine all the people living life in peace. 

You may say I'm a dreamer but I'm not the only one. I hope you'll join us now cause now is all

we have, Make the world into one: One Love, One Heart, let's get together and feel all right. 

Ingrid Cheng

Author of The Anti-aging Secrets of Yoga

This short story is dedicated to my mom who celebrated her 80th birthday this year.

Thursday, October 7, 2021

Travel Connections: Lake Havasu

@GoLakeHavasu

Beautiful am I, bountiful am I, blissful am I, yahey. I got the keys to the wisdom of ages, I got the keys, yahey. I got the love, I got the joy, I got the peace, yahey. We're in this together, we're stronger together. We're in this together, yahey. I learned the Beautiful am I mantra at a yoga retreat. We sang the Kirtan (call and response) all through the class while doing the breath of fire. The words stuck with me and the rest followed after I had a vision of a live retreat in Sedona. I wrote The Anti-aging Secrets of Yoga and dedicated my book to my dad who passed away in October of 2019. He taught me to value freedom and democracy. Little did I know that I was healing trauma and continue to heal as I share my truth with other spiritual beings who are in this journey of life. I felt alone and unloved. I felt anxious and depressed because the people who are supposed to love me didn't listen to me or accept me. They assumed that they knew me when they never cared enough to hear me. I got sick and tired of being treated like a nobody so I just left and began to travel. 

I went to Lake Havasu because I pre-paid for a resort stay and wanted to get away. Little did I know that my escape would bring me to meet so many beautiful souls. I met Larry and Linda, a retired couple who spend their winters at Crazy Horse RV Park. They live a healthy simple life and are free to travel anywhere. They have an organic farm and Linda is a beekeeper. Larry said she does everything better and he lets her do what she wants to do. Linda was a female officer in LAPD and her nickname was Annie Oakley. She said I must learn how to use a gun and gun safety for self-protection because cars kill more people and criminals have guns. Larry said he saw me smiling and liked me right away, that he has no time for fake people. He made me feel like I belonged. 

I also met Howard (Hip Hop Hippie), my brother from another mother while I was visiting Havasu Landing. I was curious about the Chemehuevi tribe and wanted to learn about their creation story. He volunteered to share his wisdom with me. He took me to meet Bridget Sandate at the Chemehuevi Cultural and Education Center. I'm grateful to learn about Ocean Woman who created the earth. Wolf, Coyote and Mountain Lion, they led the way. Grandpa Rattlesnake (wisdom keeper), don't tread on him. Grandma Mountain Lion/ Cougar, quiet, cautious, protective and always watching. They pray to Wolf for wisdom and ask Coyote how they can learn from their mistakes. I felt like I'd known them and  Ocean Woman in another lifetime. I said that I am part of their tribe. Little did I know that I am 99.6% East Asian and Indigenous American (https://www.23andme.com). Here's a photo of Howard and Dino, his bearded dragon and companion. My friend said he looks like a movie star.

Recently, I went back to visit my friends in Lake Havasu and took the Sunset Cruise with Sunset Charter Tours (http://www.lakehavasuboattours.com) Here's a photo of the Dragon over the Lake.

@fitnesswla

Water is life, water is wealth. Love and respect Mother Earth. Love and respect the Chemehuevi people who have lived in the area for over 3,500 years. Love and respect Lake Havasu (Ha means water, Vasu means Blue Green). www.earthmagazine.org


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Saturday, October 2, 2021

Travel Connections: Grand Adventures

@GrandCanyonNPS

I took my mom on a roadtrip of a lifetime last November. I booked plane tickets and lodging, told her we were going to the Grand Canyon. We flew from LAX to Phoenix, AZ. Then, I drove us to Sedona and checked off one of our bucket list when we visited Grand Canyon, one of the seven natural wonders of the world. The funny part was when we were in Sedona, there was an overnight snow storm so the temperature dropped from 60's to the 30's. 

"It's too cold, my teeth are chattering and my toes are all frozen! It's hard to walk" My mom said.

"I told you to bring a puffy jacket and you didn't listen." I replied.

"Well, I'm going to stay in the car and sleep. I didn't get to sleep much because you made me wake up so early."

Mom is a night owl and I'm an early bird. I often feel like the chicken talking to the duck. My dad passed away in October of 2019 and mom has been very needy since then. I made a conscious decision to spend quality time with her to get to know her better. It hasn't been easy dealing with someone who's so bound by her culture and upbringing. I tried to be patient, but being locked down with a 79-year old widow who holds onto the past for dear life tested me. She became addicted to the news and the negativity. She became like Dr. Jekyll/ Mr, Hyde. She drove me crazy and I just wanted to leave her for good. "Ah Dai" my big sister who lives nearby "stayed safer at home" and didn't make time to help. She was "too busy" and made us take the Covid PCR test every time before we "visited" her. I went along with "Ah Dai's" rules because I thought I had no choice. That was the limiting belief that cost me more than I realized. Looking back, I should've asserted myself and demanded that she respect my healthy boundaries. My dysfunctional, co-dependent family didn't serve me and I kept giving pieces of myself up to gain their love and respect. In doing so, I lost my self-love and self-respect. 

As women, we've been conditioned to sacrifice ourselves for our families. We often put others before us and don't prioritize self care. We over give and become people pleasers until we run empty and burn out. I got burnt to the ashes but I rose up like a Phoenix because I reclaimed my divine rights. We're all created equal. No one is better than another person. No one has the right to bully, shame or put down someone. No one has the right to make me feel bad or guilty. They may call my crazy, but it takes a crazy person to change the world.

A Murder of Crows: Coins can kill birds. The American Crows are very social, inquisitive and sometimes mischievous. Crows are good learners and problem-solvers. They are aggressive and protect their territory by chasing other birds away. Birds of a feather flock together. Did you know that the color black is made up of a rainbow of colors? I love the Rainbow Crow, a supposed Lenape legend, symbolizing the value of selflessness and service. It is also a modification of a Cherokee story of the "First Fire". After a long period of cold weather, the animals became worried. They decided to send a messenger to the Great Sky Spirit to ask for help. The Rainbow Crow, the most beautiful bird offered to make the arduous journey. He carried the gift of fire in his beak back to his people, but upon his return, his plumage was scorched black and didn't appear to be the same bird that he once was. His voice was made rough and hoarse by the smoke, but in certain light, you can still see his rainbow colors.

Did you know that a California Condor (a critically endangered species) recently died of zinc poisoning from swallowing coins? She was a breeding female, possibly seeking a calcium source before laying an egg. Other wildlife has been harmed by ingesting litter. "Give a hoot! Don't pollute." Woodsy the Owl is an icon for the U.S. Forest Service. His current motto is "Lend a hand - care for the land!"

 

Bee the change, bee the change, bee the change we want to see. I believe we can bee the change we want to see. Buy local and organic. Please save the bees.

I am so grateful for my Superpowers. I am Monkey 🐒 and Scorpio ♏, a free spirit and a bridge between two worlds. I am an empath and a light worker. I am the change I want to see in the world.

Ingrid Cheng

Author of The Anti-Aging Secrets of  Yoga, The Adventures of Monkey, Sparky Rescued Me, Island Life: Hawaii ABCs, A Cat's Life: Kitty Paws and Travel Connections.

Monday, April 12, 2021

Imagine Living in Singapore

 

Jewel Rain Vortex – the world's tallest indoor waterfall 
My sister lives in Singapore so I've visited many times before but I was determined to play tourist this time. I made a list of places and things I wanted to check out and managed to complete my list.
I used Gojek (like Uber) and took the MRT (Mass Rapid Transit) to everywhere. I also walked a lot. Morning is the best time to go because there is less of a crowd and it's not as hot. I wore sneakers or comfortable walking shoes so I could walk for hours without getting sore feet. I also brought a spare compact umbrella to shade against the sun and in case of sudden showers.
Botanic Gardens - UNESCO World Heritage Site
My mom and I took the MRT to the Botanic Gardens and walked there for 1.5 hour. It got hot around 11 am, so we walked across the street to eat lunch at Relish. I entered our order on their iPad and waited hungrily for our food. The chicken salad was a bit small but the Thai noodles that my mom got were good.
Chinatown has the best bargains!

I got some scarves and souvenirs for about $15 U.S in Chinatown but the best thing was the food!
We enjoyed a walking food tour - I ate Eggettes (鷄蛋仔) Chinese waffle, curry puff, fish balls (鱼丸) on a stick and had lunch at Maxwell Food Center.
Christmas lights at Gardens by the Bay

My sister took me to Christmas Wonderland at Gardens by The Bay and we loved the Indian themed lights. It rained earlier in the day so I was glad it cleared up at night.  There was quite a crowd and we just ate dinner, so we enjoyed the festive scene without queuing up for food.
Esplanade Park walk has best view!
I took the MRT to Raffles Place station and walked along the Esplanade early in the morning. There were a lot of tourists taking photos at the famous Merlion (the body symbolises Singapore's humble beginnings as a fishing village & the head represents Singapore’s original name, Singapura, or ‘lion city’) and the view of the famous hotel was great. I had breakfast on-the-go and brought along a bottle of water.
Makansutra Gluttons Bay and Marina Bay Sands

We ate satay at Gluttons Bay before going to a concert at the Esplanade Theater/ Concert Hall. Did you know that it's shaped like a durian (a stinky fruit with spikes)? Singapore is a Foodie heaven as you can eat a variety of ethnic food any time of the day. I like cheap eats at food courts and hawker centers. Singapore is very clean and I have no fear about getting sick from street food. I used sanitizing wipes on my hands before I ate if I could not find a restroom nearby. I made the mistake of ordering too much food the first time I was at a hawker center, so I scaled back thinking I could always order more if I was still hungry after the concert.

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Ingrid Cheng @fitnesswla
Author of 100 books

Art Therapist, blogger, content creator, disruptor, educator, fun-lover, global citizen, healthy foodie, idealist, journalist, lifelong learner, motivational speaker, natural storyteller and visionary

Sunday, January 31, 2021

Celebrate Chinese Culture with Monkey

I am glad to partner with these great companies for my new book, The Adventures of Monkey (based on The Chinese Zodiac and Monkey King, a traditional Chinese tale. I believe that bilingual/ multilingual education and diverse books are so needed now. I advocate practicing self-care and self-love to stay healthy during these challenging and stressful times. I myself have been dealing with anxiety and sleep issues. I find that yoga, meditation and writing help me relax. I hosted a Fill up with Wellness Zoom event where we sipped hot wellness drinks with a few drops of CBD and shared tips on how to deal with all the chaos and uncertainty,

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The Adventures of Monkey

Chapter 1. The Quest for Immortality

Monkey is curious about the legend of the Peach of Longevity. She wants to find the Peach and eat it so she can live forever. Monkey goes to wise Goat for advice.

"The jouney is a long and difficult one. You must go ask Horse to take you up Gold Mountain." Goat says.

"Thank you. Goodbye." Monkey replies. So the quest begins.

Horse agrees to take Monkey to the top of the mountain, but wants a share of the Peach. Monkey nods yes and they go up the steep slope. On the way, Horse sees Snake and is afraid.

"Please don't bite me." He says.

"I am the guardian of the path. No one shall pass unharmed." Snake replies.

Monkey has a good idea. "Let us pass and we will give you a treasure."

"What is it?" Snake asks.

"It is the best thing in the world."

"Tell me."

"I can't say more but you won't be sorry." Monkey knows Snake loves secrets and it works.

"I will go with you, but beware."

"Are the more dangers ahead?" Horse asks.

"Dragon guards the Tree of Life. He is the one you need to be afraid of." Snake replies.

"I'll think of something." Monkey assures them.

On the way, they meet Rat and Dog. Rat knows a secret path up that passes by Snake. Dog guards the Middle Road.

"Halt! No one shall pass unharmed." Dog says.

Rat is afraid that Dog will bite her, but Horse is not.

"Let us pass or I shall trample you."

When Horse tries, Dog grows so large that she is as big as Horse.

"Join us on our quest and share in the treasure." Monkey says.

"What is it?" Dog asks.

"I can't say more, but soon you shall see." Monkey knows that Dog loves treasures and it works.

"I will go with you, but beware." Dog replies.

"Are there more dangers ahead beside the Dragon?" Horse asks.

"You need to ask Pig for the gold he keeps so we can bribe Dragon. He is old and grumpy. He is most likely to say no." Dog says.

"Don't worry, I'll think of something." Monkey assures them.

"Let's go see Pig." Snake says. She doesn't tell them that Pig is her husband because she loves secrets.

They go to the Upper Level and see Pig's large mansion with a mud pool. Snake knocks on the door even though she has the key.

"Who is it?"

"We are here to see Pig." Snake tells Rabbit.

"Come in Madame."

"Meet my husband." Snake says, revealing her secret.

"Sir Pig." Monkey bows to the elderly man.

"What do you want?" He asks.

"And what are you doing here, wife? Why aren't you guarding the path?"

"Monkey wants to get the Peach of Longevity."

"It's impossible."

"We'll give Dragon the gold and he shall let us have one of the Peaches." Monkey says.

"You think I haven't tried? Ha! I thought of it a decade ago." Pig replies.

"It didn't work." Snake says. "Dragon laughed at us and told us to go home. When He made me promise to guard the path in return for sparing our lives, I hired Rabbit to take care of my husband."

"Only then did we escape certain death." Pig adds.

"Don't worry. I'll think of something." Monkey assures them. Since everyone knows how clever Monkey is they nod, but Pig shakes his head because he doubts she can succeed.

"Are there any dangers ahead?" Horse asks.

"I hear that Tiger guards the final pass." Dog replies.

"Let's go." Snake says.

They walk for a long time before they come close to the fierce Tiger who bares her fangs.

"Halt! No one shall pass unharmed." She growls.

"We are on a quest for the best thing in the world." Monkey says.

"What is it?"

"The Peach of Longevity."

"Ha! Do you thing I haven't tried to take the Peach? I fought the Dragon for it and lost. He was going to eat me, but let me go after I promised to guard this path."

"Don't worry. I'll think of something." Monkey assures them.

Since everyone knows how clever Monkey is, TIger decides to join them. They travel for many more miles before the are almost to the top. They are surprised to meet Ox and Rooster.

"How did you get up here?" Snake asks.

"Ha! You think there's only one way up? I found another way and got Ox to take me here." Rooster replies boastfully.

"If you are so smart where is the Peach?" Monkey asks.

Rooster looks down and shakes his head.

"I tried to distract Dragon while he went for the Peach, but Rooster was too slow." Ox says.

Tiger growls, Horse neighs, Dog howls, Snake hisses and Rat squeaks.

"Don't worry. I'll think of something." Monkey assures them. Rat has kept quiet all the way because she loves to be as quiet as a mouse.

"Someone else is here." Rat says. "Look at that hole."

"Hello everyone." Rabbit pops his head up and greets them.

"How did you get pass me?" Tiger asks.

"He dug his way through." Monkey replies before Snake can because Monkey likes to show how clever she is.

"I plan to dig my way to the Tree of Life." Rabbit tells them.

"How will you get the Peach?" Rat asks."I thought of digging my way there too. If only I can be faster than Dragon or before I know it, I'll be his snack."

They all shiver at the grisly image, except Monkey.

"Don't worry. I'll think of something." She assures them.

"I can almost taste that juicy Peach!" Rabbit hops high and cheers.

"Let's go." Snake says.

They finally see the Dragon guarding the Tree of Life and stop at a safe distance.

"Halt! Don't get any closer." Dragon roars.

"We meet again." Tiger growls and attacks the Dragon for that is her nature.

Monkey dashes up the Tree and gets the only Peach before Dragon defeat Tiger again. She takes a bite of the juicy fruit and throws it to Horse who takes another bite. Snake eats a small bit, then Ox and Rooster have their share. Rat sneaks a tiny bite before Dog and Rabbit crunch the Peach almost in half. Monkey jumps down and grabs it. She is so fast that all they see is a blur before TIger opens her jaws and eats her share.

"Thank you." She tells Monkey, licking her lips.

"Oh no! What about my husband?" Snake asks.

"And Goat won't get her share." Ox says.

"Don't worry. I broke off a piece of the fruit before I gave it to Tiger." Monkey says.

"How clever you are." Snake replies and the other agree.

"Now that you are all immortal, what do you plan to do with this gift?" Dragon asks.

"I will share the last piece of the Peach with Pig and Goat. Then I will go on many adventures." Monkey replies.

"I will enter the thousand-mile race." Horse says.

"Good luck." Snake replies."I will enjoy a long vacation."

"You deserve it." Dog says. "I will eat all I want and go on a long walk."

"Cheese. I will enjoy all kinds of cheese." Rat whispers.

"I'll eat lots of carrots and spend more time with my kids." Rabbit says.

"I'll retire and enjoy lazig under the sun." Ox adds.

"I'll crow about my long life to all the world." Rooster tells them.

"Don't boast." Tiger says. "I will entere the Ultimate Fight of Big Cats."

"I'll fly up to heaven and rest." Dragon adds.

"Who will guard the Tree of Life?" Snake asks.

"Once the Peach has been eaten, the  tree will not have more fruit."

So they say goodbye and go their separate ways except Monkey, Snake and Rabbit. They go to the mansion on the Upper level and give Pig a bite. Then Rabbit tells his boss that he will quit in a week and to look for a new helper. Snake gives him a gold coin as a bonus. Monkey says goodbye and goes to Goat who is content o graze on grass.

"Here is your share of the Peach. I have so much to tell you." She gives Goat the last piece and starts to fill her in on all the good parts. So all the horoscope animals get their immortality and everyone is happy.

"What about humans?" You ask.

"Sorry, animals are smart enough not to make war and deserve this gift. Humans are not worthy yet.






Day 1: Start out with some stress relief tips by Calm by Wellness

1. Hydration - Drink more water
2. Greens & fiber - Eat more veggies
3. Breathe through it -Take slow deep belly breaths & sigh it out
4. Move more - Go for a walk or get up from your desk every 30 minutes

Day 2: : Yoga is self-care. I interviewed Adriana Lee and she shared these tips with me:

1. Have a regular practice each morning do some a9exercise like) yoga (even just 10-15 minutes)

2. Be grateful, pause for 10 seconds before you eat or write down 3 things you're grateful for

3. Guided meditation

4. Breathwork/ pranayama

5. Take a cold shower for 30 seconds builds resilience

Day 3: CBD and TCM with Belen Saavedra (CBD Girl) @belensmastery

1. Do your own research. Make sure the CBD is harvested and extracted the right way. The company's website should show that its products are third-party tested, organic, non-GMO and extracted with CO2 not solvenresearch. Make sure the CBD is harvested and extracted the right way. The company's website should show that its products are third-party tested, organic, non-GMO and extracted with CO2 not solvents.

2. There are 3 types of CBD products: 

Full spectrum: contains < 3% THC, CBN, CBC, CBG,  terpenes and flavonoids

Broad spectrum: contains all the beneficial compounds without THC (what makes you high)

Isolate: just pure CBD, no other compounds

Smaller, craft companies often have better quality

TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine: I grew up in Hong Kong where my Chinese doctor treated me as a whole person and spent time to find out the root cause of my symptoms. Often, it's an imbalance of chi. Traditional Chinese Medicine focuses on Chi (the energy in our bodies). There is either too much or not enough yin or yang in the body and the cure involves acupuncture, cupping, herbal medicine, time and patience. Our health care system is actually sick care because it mostly focuses on treating symptoms not prevention or addressing the root causes of illnesses.

Ingrid Cheng

Author of The Anti-aging Secrets of Yoga

"This book is engaging and easy to read. It made me think about trying yoga." Raymond Aaron, New York Times Bestselling Author





Thursday, January 28, 2021

Healthy Weight Week

I met Dave Asprey at Best You

In honor of Healthy Weight Week, we’ve got five tips anyone can do to ensure their efforts pay off – the healthy way.

Make friends with the scale 
There’s a wide chasm of opinion between those who support using a scale, and those who do not.
Many physicians say it’s a smart way to monitor the effect our eating habits have on our weight. Meanwhile, weight loss consultants and those who study body image would rather you toss it in the trash, or use it for anaerobic exercise. The correct answer seems to lie in the middle.

Use your scale, but don’t let it rule your life. The scale is there to help measure where you've come from, and where you're headed -- not as a measure of who you are as a person. Always remember: you are not the number on the scale.

Don’t neglect your muscles 
A healthy weight is best maintained when the muscles that support our body are strong. Therefore, any training that builds strong muscles should be considered a plus. (I do planks and use dumbbells).

Recognize achievements in real time 
The difficulty maintaining a healthy weight often has to do with improper goal setting. Long-term goals are difficult for humans to keep in focus beyond a short period of time. Failure, then, is almost predictable. It’s impossible to discount the feeling you’ll get when you’ve got a bag of groceries in each arm, and are aware of your muscles working to carry them. Or when you (can move) more deftly (in your day-to-day activities) after a particularly good week of healthy eating.

These are real, immediate, and measurable experiences. Experiences that when added up and remembered each day are the key to keeping your body healthy.

Know your brain  
Your brain lies to you. It tells you you’re hungry when you’re (bored, thirsty or) tired. And, it tells you you’re tired when you’ve still got an extra mile in you. Don’t allow it to trick you. Learn more about your brain, and how to corral its tomfoolery on the FitWoman website. Which, by the way, has a lot of actionable healthy weight resources for women AND men! 

Asian soup bowls to the rescue! 
I love soup! 
Speaking of our brains, how about we play a trick on it? It’s no surprise, that the larger the plate, the more (food) we put on it. And the more we put on the plate, the more we eat. So, here’s a trick you can take to the bank.

Pick up a few Asian soup bowls...like the (Chinese or) Japanese miso soup variety … the small ones. If you struggle with portion control, try using (chopsticks and) these smaller bowls during mealtimes. It’ll slow you down, and allow your brain to start seeing them as the preferred portion size. It’ll help you manage servings more appropriately, and over time, you’ll get used to the new way of eating.

Mindful Eating Coach

Ingrid Cheng

Tuesday, January 5, 2021

Fit-Twist Health

 

Fit-Twist Health

I created Fit-Twist: a health referral service because I realized that being healthy is not just about how you look on the outside but how you feel on the inside. I am a yoga teacher and health coach who partners with other businesses and groups to bring health and wellness to you online and in person through health events. My mission is to empower women to be healthy inside-out. Stress is the leading cause of illness and the reason for two-thirds of the total visits to the doctors. Most women are overworked and need a healthy way to reduce stress. I plan to offer Corporate Wellness Programs with Fit-Twist Yoga and mindfulness practices that I developed and shared in my book, "Anti-Aging Secrets of Yoga" to help promote wellness and reduce stress. My goal is to help employees or the staff feel more energized and relaxed in just one class. I guarantee that you will feel better and healthier after taking my classes regularly for three to four weeks. Contact me for a 15-minute free consultation if you are a company that wants to promote wellness to your employees or staff. Find out how cost-effective it is to hire me. Exercise + Nutrition + Health. https://lnkd.in/ugNn4P

I have personally been suffering from work-related stress and know what over half of Americans are going through right now. Did you know the below facts

  • Women are more likely than men to overeat when dealing with work-related stress, while men are more likely to opt for drug use.
  • Workers with higher incomes are more likely to experience workplace stress.
  • Workplace stress facts indicate that the incapability of establishing good work-life balance is one of the leading causes of stress at work.
  • 1 in 3 customer service workers report they often feel emotionally exhausted after work. The cause of stress and eventual burnout in the customer service field is most likely the combination of the two omnipresent stressors: the routine of processing mostly identical requests repeatedly all day long and having to deal with customers’ frustrations without ever opposing them.
  • Working mothers are 18% more stressed than childless women.
  • Burnout syndrome accounts for 8% of the occupational illness cases.
  • Up to 69% of the surveyed healthcare employees have agreed they currently feel under pressure at their workplace. 
Physical activity has been proven to regulate the release of stress hormones (cortisol, adrenaline, etc.) and renew your energy, which can undoubtedly increase your work performance and bring relief from work anxiety. Apart from regulating the production of stress hormones, exercise also stimulates the production of the body’s natural mood enhancers – endorphins.

According to statistics, mental health is what deteriorates first when working in a high stress environment. Thus, 44% of illnesses of stressed workers include work related depression. These also account for approximately 54% of all working days skipped because of health issues. Moreover, mental health issues such as depression and anxiety are most frequently seen among public service workers (such as social workers, teachers, and healthcare employees).

Workers who feel they’re under a lot of pressure might consider informing themselves on strategies that proved to be effective in alleviating anxiety in the workplace. First of all, you need your day to start properly – with a healthy meal and having everything planned in advance. Constant workplace stress can have detrimental effects on one’s health and professional performance.

Yoga and mindfulness can help improve overall health and wellness while reducing stress. Contact me for details.
Ingrid Cheng
Author of "Anti-Aging Secrets of Yoga"
Yoga teacher, health coach and wellness advocate
Former Let's Move! West L.A. Co-Founder and Co-Organizer
Former elementary school teacher
Graduate of the Multiple Subject Credential Program at Cal State Northridge 
UCLArts & Healing Social Emotional Arts (SEA) Certificate 

Friday, January 1, 2021

The Anti-Aging Secrets of Yoga

Anti-aging Secrets of Yoga

This is the thorny, daunting task that I keep procrastinating on because I didn't think that I could ever finish my book. I thought I was wasting my time because no one would want to buy it and read it. I'm so grateful for Woman Unleashed Retreat because it made me start again after putting it off for so long! 

The Anti-aging Secrets of Yoga

I love books. They are always there for me whenever I need them. In many ways, books are my best friends and teachers. They provide entertainment, education and empowerment. Oprah Winfrey who also loves books says this better than I do. "Reading has been among my greatest passion for as long as I can remember...one of life's most profound joy is to open a book and learn from its pages, to be astonished, to empathize and to grow. But there's another category of book, the super-soulful that I turn to again and again for inspiration, companionship or help in moving from darkness to light." Her story inspires me and millions of people. 

My own story begins with a whimper because I had middle-child syndrome. I grew up in Hong Kong. Stuck between my high-achieving big sister and my perfect baby sister, I felt like an ugly duckling in a family of swans. I was the “Fat Girl” who didn’t fit in. I was “clumsy” and “stupid”. I was a door mat and a victim of my big sister, the bully. I thought I wasn’t good enough. That there was something wrong with me. Why else would she do or say such mean, hurtful things to me? I was a mess of fears and insecurities. I hated my body and myself. I didn’t deserve to be verbally and emotionally abused so often that I wished I could die because it hurt too much. I didn’t feel safe or loved at home. My parents were absent or clueless since my sister usually waited until they went out before she terrorized me. She was a bully and I was her convenient, favorite victim. I was an easy target because I didn’t know how to defend myself. My sister called me a “cry baby” and said that I was too sensitive when she made me cry while my parents were home. I was afraid to tell on her because she had threatened to do worse to me if I did. I poured out my hurt and pain in my diary, I cried myself to sleep many nights.

The cycle continued until I was fourteen when we moved to Hawaii in United States. I was older but still insecure. I was called names and picked on for my accent and skin color. I stuffed down feelings of anger and shame with food. I binged and purged because my mom told me to lose weight but I was a junk food/ sugar addict who couldn’t control myself. I joined the tennis team and started running as part of the training. At first, I hated it because I was out of breath and the slowest runner. I often got a stitch in my side and felt like quitting, but I kept at it. Eventually, I learned to love running and the natural high that followed. I felt in control and lost over 40 pounds. I felt proud of winning the battle against my body, but I was still a victim of bullying. Finally, I’ve had enough, so I ran away. I planned it well. I wrote down my reasons in my diary and left it there to be discovered after I was gone. I had saved enough money to take the bus to San Francisco. At that time, we were living in Riverside, a suburb that is east of Los Angeles (in the middle of nowhere). I woke up at down, put some extra clothes and snacks in my backpack and walked to the Greyhound bus stop. I bought a one-way ticket to San Francisco because I did not plan to go back. It was scary and exhilarating because I felt free and lost at the same time. I didn’t know what was there for me in this city that’s over 400 miles away, but I knew that my aunt or grandmother would welcome me if I’d just shown up out of the blue. I psyched myself up for a new life where I could be loved and accepted for who I was, not criticized for who I wasn’t. When I arrived in San Francisco, something inside me urged me to call my parents to assure them that I was okay. After all, they had no idea where I was or if I was safe. I used a pay phone to call home. My mom picked up almost immediately. She was crying and asking if I was okay. She told me that my big sister was so sorry and promised that things would be better if I returned home. I cried and finally told her how I felt like they never heard me or considered my feelings. It was one of the few times that we talked about what’s really important to me. How sad it is that it took such drastic action to get the people who were supposed to love me to really listen.

I grew up believing that what I wanted didn’t matter, that I had to deny my dreams and myself to be loved and accepted. I wanted to be a writer, but my parents told me to be practical and stop dreaming. I had to be realistic and responsible. I needed to go to college, get a job and make money so that I could be happy and have what I want. Conditioned to respect authority and my parents, I let them decide my major and my career. I gave them control of my happiness and my life. Outside, I was like everyone else who had a job, but I was miserable inside. I pretended that things were fine, but I was never happy. The more I worked, the more money I made, the more I felt dead and empty inside. I knew what I didn’t want, but I didn’t know what I really wanted because I had denied my dream for so long that it felt unreal. No wonder I was a mess. It took many books and coaching sessions to heal the childhood trauma and wounds that I got through no fault of my own. I’m so grateful to all the books, coaches, my English teachers and most thankful to yoga for empowering me to let go of my sad old story and create a happy one. I’m turning my mess into a message in hope that I can inspire other people. Everyone has a story and often they feel like a helpless victim in life. I used to feel that way, but if I can change, so can anyone who has been called “fat” or bullied. I wouldn’t wish what I’ve gone through on my worst enemy. but it made me more empathic, more able to relate to kids who have been abused. 

Chapter 1 - Alignment

When your body is in alignment, you are able to move freely and easily. Yoga is about union of mind, body and spirit. When you connect with your body and your breath, the practice of yoga allows you to align with your inner truth or the Source. We are all spiritual beings, whole and complete, lacking in nothing. Health, love and happiness already exist within us. There is nothing to do, nowhere to be. Commit to a regular practice and you will get more than just an exercise routine.

How do you practice your yoga? Do you connect with your body and your breath? Do you align with your inner truth?

 Know the truth:

1.  You are not alone

2. You are not broken and there is nothing wrong with you

3. You are not unloved or unloveable

“Let It Go” from Frozen is the song that resonates with me the most. I sing along to this at the top of my voice with all my heart when something bothers me.

“Let it go! Let go! Can’t hold it back anymore…Turn away and slam the door. I don’t care what they’re going to say…It’s funny how some distance makes everything seem small and the fears that once controlled me can’t get to me at all. It’s time to see what I can do. To test the limits and break through. No right, no wrong, no rules for me. I’m free!...Here I stand and here I’ll stay. Let the storm rage on…I’m never going back. The past is in the past! Let it go! Let it go! And I’ll rise like the break of dawn. Let it go! Let it go! That perfect girl is gone. Here I stand in the light of day. Let the storm rage on! The cold never bothered me anyway.” 

What is the song that resonates with you the most? Play that music. Sing along to it at the top of your voice! Write down the lyrics that speak to your heart. Whenever something bothers you, sing that song!

Repeat this mantra 3 times

“Beautiful am I, bountiful am I, blissful am I.”

Breathe in beauty, exhale and let go of anger or resentment

Breathe in abundance, exhale and let go of lack or poverty

Breathe in bliss, exhale and let go of stress or anxiety

Keep breathing deeply

Ask “What do I really want?” If you don’t know want you want, then ask “What’s my biggest challenge or problem?” Many people want to lose weight at the beginning of a New Year because they gained weight over the last few months or years. They overate or over-indulged during the holidays, the past months or years and feel guilty. Ask “Why do I want to change?” “What have I got to lose if I don’t change?” “If I know that I couldn’t fail, what would I do differently today to get closer to my goal? I wanted to lose weight as a teenager because I felt like I wasn’t good enough and that I had to look a certain way to be loved. Asking questions is a powerful way to get answers. What do you really want? Do you want to be healthier? Why? Do you believe that you can look and feel better? Write down your answers in the journal.

Alignment is the first step to manifest what you want. Be careful what you wish for because it may not make you happy when it comes true. I wanted to be thin, but that didn’t make me feel happy or loved. Ask “What makes me feel happy and loved?” Write down your answer in your journal.

Believe is the fuel that drives us. B.A.M. Believe. Act. Manifest. Believe in yourself and your dreams or goals. Ask “What will I do differently today that will support my goal?”

"One Love" by Bob Marley is the song that inspires me. I sing along to it whenever I'm happy or sad. What is your favorite song? Why do you love it?

Write down what comes up in a journal after your practice.

Chapter 2

Balance: I used to have bad balance and tended to trip or fall. I've twisted both my ankles several times. Yoga dramatically improved my balance and allowed me to hike up 1,000 feet to the top of
Vernal Falls without any prior regular hiking experience. After each hike in Yosemite, I'd do a gentle yoga stretch. Every morning, I rolled out my travel yoga mat and did some sequences to stretch out any soreness or tightness. Someone did trip and hurt her ankle, but I felt confident and strong, knowing that my ankles would support me.

Did you know that our balance gets worse as we age? Why does our balance get worse as we grow older? "We lose physical strength and bone density, our sense of balance deteriorates and we are more at risk from falling. Alarmingly, this process begins around the age of 25. The reasons for this are varied and complex, but by understanding them better, we can find ways to mitigate the effects of old age. With age and inactivity, the unconscious processes your brain goes through to help you balance may not integrate as well or as quickly as they used to – in other words, your cognitive abilities decline. As a result, maintaining balance and preventing harmful falls may require ever greater mental focus and prove more fatiguing." Do the balance test to see if you need to improve your balance. 

As we age, there’s always some new pain in our bodies. I have been dealing with a nasty backache in my left side that doesn't go away no matter what I've tried. This added to the anxiety and stress I've been struggling with since COVID and the lockdowns. I practiced self-care, continued to exercise, stretch and do yoga, but my back still hurts. Last month, I spent over $300 trying to fix my problem: $100 for acupuncture, $50 for cupping, $100 for CBD products, over $50 for sleep remedies and about $100 to join Forward in order to see a doctor because my Cigna, regular insurance wouldn't let me make an appointment for a Wellness Checkup. When I asked why, the person at the doctor's office said that because I got a checkup in January 2020, I had to wait to get help. I realized that I wasn't asking the right questions. What caused my backache? How did it happen? Why did my back start hurting? When did it start? When I delved deeper into the problem, I realized that it's caused by job-related stress. I felt like a prisoner, chained to my desk while I was working from home. I didn't set healthy boundaries with my supervisor or the people I served. I went above and beyond to help them at a great cost to me. I asked for help repeatedly and didn't get any. I ended up feeling angry, depressed, resentful, stressed and burned out. Finally, I've had enough and handed in my resignation letter on December 3rd. Yet I still let work stress me out. I still try to be too nice at my expense. I was caught up in my old patterns. When they asked me to stay another month because they couldn't find someone to replace me, I said yes but I asked for more help or compensation. My supervisor gave me a $500 bonus, but I realized that she's making $100,000 deals and that bonus is .05% of her sales. As an affiliate, I earn 20% commission so I told her I couldn't stay at my job anymore. She immediately made me feel guilty for standing up to myself. I realized that she's literally a pain in my back and I just decided to end our relationship before her negativity could affect me more.  

What part of your body hurts? Did you try everything to fix it to no avail? Ask the right questions and the answer will come to you! What part of your body or life do you need to work on? Choose your weakest part and write down how you really want to feel about that part. What would it cost you if you don't change? What would it feel like if you could have this? Write down your answers in the journal.

Chapter 3

Coordination: I used to think I was a klutz, often confusing left with right. I didn't think I could do yoga because I was often on the wrong side. Normally, I'd feel discouraged and give up, but somehow yoga spoke to me, telling me to be patient. I kept going to classes regularly and improved my coordination exponentially. I still confuse my left with my right but I don’t let that upset me as much as I used to.

Did you know that our coordination decreases as we age? “Age-related changes are caused by the loss of function to multiple areas of the brain. As we age, the neuromuscular communication in our body isn’t as strong as it was earlier in life. A recent study found evidence that age-related changes in visual perception may also affect hand-eye coordination. The study showed that younger people interpret and react to near-body space in a fundamentally different way than older adults." Healthline.com

"Exercise has been shown to have a positive impact on hand-eye coordination. 2010 studyTrusted Source showed that regular swimming, in particular, may help with this skill. Swimming is a low-impact exercise, and the repetitive movements may also help with balance. Another method that may help hand-eye coordination is Tai Chi, a Chinese practice that involves meditative stretching and balance exercises.” I love Tai Chi and got to practice it online! 

https://www.healthline.com/health/hand-eye-coordination#outlook

Chapter 4

Dedication: I never stuck with an exercise routine or a healthy eating habit. Yoga taught me about dedication. I experienced the physical, mental and spiritual benefits of a regular practice so that I continue to dedicate myself to this healthy lifestyle choice.

1.       Find your Why? Why do you want to be healthy? Dig deep! What would it cost you if you don’t change? How would it affect your life? If you couldn’t fail, what would you do today to get closer to your goals?

1.       2.       Connect with like-minded people. Join my free Facebook group www.facebook.com/fitnesswla

3.       Get help. Be coachable. Schedule a free 15-minute coaching call with me.

Ask your friends to name 3 things that you’re good at. Then ask what is annoying about you. Write down their answers in your journal.

Often, we don’t like to receive feedback because we take that as an attack or criticism. It’s a learned response from our childhood. I believe that almost everyone of us have grown up being criticized and compared to our siblings. My parents often asked why I couldn’t be like my big sister. I didn’t have an answer to that and felt like I wasn’t good enough. Though I’ve healed from the past, this scar is deep and any feedback that is not positive or supportive triggers me. What triggers you? Write down their answers in your journal.

2.       Connect with like-minded people. Join my free Facebookgroup 

Get help. Be coachable. Schedule a free15-minute coaching call with me.

Chapter 5

Energy: Doing yoga in the morning is better than caffeine. It gives you a natural high without the crash and allow you to have energy throughout the day. I incorporate inversions like the head stand and forward fold that brings more blood flow to my face and brain; better than any antiaging cream or lotion. These poses also help relief back pain.



Chapter 6

Flexibility: I wasn't flexible like most yoginis and I didn't think I could do yoga. Guess what? You don't need to be flexible to enjoy yoga. In fact, my nickname used to be "rusty" due to my tight hamstrings and I started from where I was worked with yoga to increase my flexibility. Yoga helped me realize that there are other areas in my life that need to be more flexible. I tend to be impatient and stubborn like my mom. I can still be impatient and stubborn, but I am more aware of my weaknesses. Awareness is the first step that leads to change.

Start from where you are. Be kind and gentle with your body. No force, no pain.

Don't compare yourself with others. You are unique and perfect. There is just one you!  

Chart your progress. Notice how far you can stretch. When you bend over on the forward fold, how far down can you reach without straining? Write down what came up during your practice.

Journaling is a great way to manifest more of what you want in life.

 Chapter 7

Gratitude: I appreciate my body and what it does for me. I am grateful for cooking healthy food that tastes great. I am thankful for all the benefits of a regular yoga practice that empowered me to fulfill my highest purpose. Each morning, I write down at least three things that I am grateful for. 

“The more you are grateful for what you have the more you will have to be grateful for.” Zig Ziglar. Focus on the good and you’ll bring more good into your life. What are you grateful for?

Write down at least three things that you are thankful for in your journal.

 Chapter 8

Happiness: Being present, enjoying each moment is really good. It is the secret to lasting happiness. I source joy from every day experiences and no longer chase after elusive things that brings instant gratification but do not serve my purpose. I used to stuff down my feelings of emptiness with food. I bought things that I seldom or never used because I thought having these things would make me feel better or happier. I used to be a summer camp counselor at the Y. I was not prepared to lead kids on a hike. They didn’t train me or prepare me, I led them on a short hike but listened to them & let them decide to go back early and play games at the camp. We had a lot of fun being creative, but I was criticized for not following the curriculum. That was when I decided to quit after the end of camp and do something more creative with kids. I volunteered at Free Arts for Abused Children. I loved spending time with the kids, creating all sorts of artworks. But my dad said I was wasting my time and that I should go back to get my Master’s degree like my sister. I was a perpetual job-hopper. I could never stay in a job for long because I felt bored and stifled after a while. I knew what I didn't want but I couldn’t get what I really wanted because I believed that it was impossible. So, I resigned myself to a mediocre job and a life that was without meaning or purpose. I even went back to college to get my teaching credential because I wanted to make a bigger difference, but our public education is failing our kids. I had a class full of students who were English-as-Second-Language learners. I was supposed to have an assistant, but never did even when I called the teacher’s Union for help. I felt like I was failing my students. Finally, I got tired and burned out, so I quit teaching. I felt guilty and that I failedI realized that it is the system that is broken and failing.

I’ve been compared to my sisters all my life and found wanting. I was the dreamer, the underachiever. Little did I know that I’m special and that there’s only one me. Yoga, reading & coaching helped me realize that I let my past trap me in a less than ideal life. Once I declared freedom from my fears & my past, I created Fit- Twist.

Yoga helped me realize that I am enough, I am perfect and there is nothing wrong with me. When I connect with my inner truth, I am full. What do you chase after? What makes you feel empty? What really satisfies you? Write down what comes up in your journal.

Chapter 9

Insight: Yoga encourages you to create space and time to reflect, to ask deep questions about what is meaningful to you. It empowers you to find your passion and purpose. My mission is to empower you to reframe your problems and refocus on your goals so that you can be healthy inside-out. My vision is to create a sacred space where everyone feels included, seen, heard, loved, supported, understood and welcomed. My biggest dream is to rent an island and invite 50 women to a special year-long retreat where we will dive deep into our inner truths and collaborate to create win-win.

What is your mission?

What is your vision?

What is your biggest dream? 

Write them down in your journal.

Chapter 10

Community/ Belonging: Yoga is all inclusive. Everyone is welcome regardless of age, race, size, religion, income, status, etc. It's the great equalizer because yoga teaches that we are all one. I love the yoga community, Studies show that loneliness is harmful to our health and well-being. A sense of belonging and community is very important if we want to be healthy inside out. No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.” John Donne.

I used to be a rebel without a cause. I didn’t belong or fit in. I was bullied and picked on. So, I swore that I would never let anyone else hurt me again. I hid behind a wall of passivity and silence. I resisted change and stayed in my comfort zone. I never asked for help because I didn’t want to be disappointed or let down by others. I thought I could do it by myself. I continue to read, journal and practice yoga because it reminds me that I am not alone. Reading, journaling and yoga help you discover yourself. I just realized that I am a Saguaro cactus, thorny outside but so giving inside. Does that resonate with you? Write down what comes up in your journal.

"Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country." J.F.K said

 Write down what community means to you. Ask how can you contribute to this place and feel more involved in it. . Ask what you can contribute to make yourself, your family, your neighborhood, your city and your country better.

Chapter 11

Mindfulness: I was not aware of how much harm I was doing to my body with my diet and exercise regimes. I have struggled with weight since childhood and was called "Fat Girl". I was bullied and teased for a long time. I got sick and tired of being known as "Fat Girl" so I managed to lose 40 pounds in less than a year. I was thin and I proud of myself, but I wasn't happy. I didn't feel like I was good enough or thin enough. I ran every day as part of my high school tennis team and loved the high that I got afterwards. I ate less, ran more and got a flat belly. Little did I know that I was anorexic. Finally, my mom made me go see a doctor. I resisted at first, but she guilted me into going. The doctor explained why I needed to eat again. Did you know that anorexia nervosa isn’t a new disorder? That it has been around since the 12th and 13th centuries? People with anorexia often have a distorted body image and see themselves as larger than they really are. They often engage in restrictive behaviors, purging behaviors, and excessive exercise. Anorexia is a serious mental illness with possible life-threatening outcomes. Anorexia has the highest mortality rate of any psychiatric disorder. Half of the deaths in anorexia are due to complications related to the disorder and the other half is due to suicide. The majority of people with anorexia are female.

Yoga allowed me to get in touch with the hurt and trauma, to ask for help from a coach and let go of my sad story. I still tend to be hard on myself, but I catch this bad habit and remind myself to be kind. Are you mindful of your internal dialogue? Do your thoughts and beliefs empower you or sabotage you? Are you mindful of what you consume? Do you let bad news, gossip and negativity affect you? Do you choose food that is "real, whole and good" for you or do you eat fake fast food because it's convenient? Be a "Guardian to your mind, body and soul". I agree with Brendon Burchard and want to share what I learned from him with you. I love his book The Motivation Manifesto. It is a resource that I often go to for inspiration and motivation.

Chapter 12

Values: Did you know that Yoga has Core Values?

·         Inquiry, Safety & Quality.

·         Compassion, Peace & Kindness.

·         Hard Work, Discipline & Commitment.

·         Honesty, Integrity & Service.

·         Optimism, Enthusiasm & Happiness.

·         Acceptance, Healing & Forgiveness.

·         Mysticism, Gratitude & Freedom. 


My Core Values are:

1. Creativity

2. Connection

3. Contribution

4. Freedom

5. Purpose


Here are my definitions of these Core Values:

·       Creativity: Being in the flow, having fun, imagining a better life/ world, being present to see and share beauty

·        Connection: Being connected to the Divine/ my highest self, connecting with like-minded women and connecting to nature

·        Contribution: Being of service, making a difference, helping others and giving back

·        Freedom: Being free to express myself, speak my truth without fear, to love more and to be beautiful, bountiful and blissful

·        Purpose: Aligning myself with my dreams. Being focused, following my heart and intuition, Being rooted in the truth that I am a creative, spiritual soul and I am called to help women reframe their problems and refocus on their goals so they can be healthy inside-out.


What are your Core Values? Choose 5 to 7. What are your definitions of these values?

My big ask and big dream:

What if I could make Los Angeles into a healthy, open city like Prescott?

What if I could be the Mayor of Los Angeles? I’d ask others what they want.

What if I could be the Governor of California? I’d ask for other people's input, encourage them to share their ideas and be part of the solution.

What would I do? I’d follow the Blue Zones and Prescott.

What if you could make your city into a better one for you and others?

What if you could be the Mayor of your city?

What if you could be the Governor of your state?

What would you do if you know that you cannot fail?

Write down what you'd do in your journal.


I am not finished yet. Let's keep each other accountable. Ask me about my book every day and I'll do the same with your thorny, daunting project/ task. Love is #mywordoftheyear 

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Ingrid Cheng
Author, health coach, yoga revolutionary 
CEO Space Graduate - Class of 2011